Does anyone else read the Lonely Hearts columns? Theyve inspired me to write several stories, as well as provided amusement with their inability to spell accommodation correctly and their abbreviation of North Hants to Northants.
Ive noticed a recent trend: the men seeking men are often what one might call mature, and some have a predilection for cross-dressing. (There are also more bisexuals placing adverts nowadays.) Women seeking women, however, are frequently widows in search of someone to have a coffee and a chat with. Occasionally you will find a stray M seeks F in the gay sections.
Unlike women, who are usually reticent on the subject, bi and gay men are upfront about seeking 'a first-time experience.
The print is small, and Im long-sighted, both of which contribute to my misreading of numbers is he really 80? and words - homy instead of horny. I still wonder whats behind the cannot accommodate and clean references; and ponder whether people are confused by the abbreviations TV (transvestite or television?); CD (compact disk or cross-dresser?); and NS (non-scene or non-smoker?).
Below are excerpts from some of the short stories where Ive mentioned lonely hearts. I hope you enjoy reading them. I do hope my publisher wont mind my quoting them.
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Invitation to Dine
Gay guy, 40s, sincere, loving and gentle, would like to meet a nice guy for friendship and perhaps romantic times.
Gay guy, 40, loving, caring and honest, seeks similar for fun, friendship, hopefully relationship.
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Brotherly Love
Nice guy, late twenties, friendly, honest, easy-going, straight, looking for long term relationship would like to meet similar female
Changed to
Nice guy, etc, etc, straight-looking would like to meet similar for long term relationship.
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Lost and Found
Phil, who met Andy in The White Swan last year, please get in touch.
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World Enough
Francis, miss you. Daniel.
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A Lucky Escape
Buy, the audience shouted.
Sell! Andy yelled.
Its not an auction. Were guessing whether the lonely hearts advertisers are straight or gay.
Or both.
Dave, the Master of Ceremonies continued, undeterred, thirty-one, brown hair, blue eyes, smoker, likes the countryside, WLTM someone for friendship, maybe relationship.
Definitely straight, Andy said. Dave is not a gay name. Do you know any Daves who are gay?
My ex-boyfriend, Graham said through gritted teeth.
Ah, now he was a David, not a Dave. Theres a world of difference.
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The Restaurant
So, if he wont go clubbing, what else is there? asked Col.
The small ads.
Dont lets get personal.
Comments
Have to agree that HP's story is lovely, did anyone think that you hadn't got him in the Bargain Basement section? They did exist at one time.
Wonder if anyone responded to the 'string' guy? Misprints are fun.
P.S. Got over it now.
Hugs,
HP
Hardly romantic, but at least I knew he could fix a sink. Comes in handy, that.
I can still remember my first words to my other half - so romantic - 'are you going to be long under there, only I've a bar to open you know!'
Then there was the big romantic proposal - 'Shall we get married then?' 'Ok, I'm free Friday afternoon - you?' and so we took the afternoon off work, got married and lived ever after. That was nearly 30 years ago. A bit of romance wouldn't go amiss, but I guess it's too late for him to learn that now!
There's obviously an opening for nationwide courses in Romance and How to Do It (or words to that effect)!
Also, I liked your auction story excerpt, Jay.
I'm often intrigued by the abbreviations in advertisements. One particular one LTR I thought meant laughter, but someone told me it doesn't. What does it mean?
LTR = long-term relationship.
My editor (in Canada) wasn't familiar with gsoh (good sense of humour), and it came back to me as 'gosh'.
GCH- Gas Central Heating in eastate agent speak (or something like that).
Very little romance there, despite 23 years of marriage. I have had more romance from the guys than from my ex!
A Happy Medium.
She came to stay for Christmas. My wife's best friend. I kissed her under the mistletoe. We've been at it ever since.
I had three children. There was an awful lot of emotional fallout. Traumatic. But the dust settled a long, long time ago, and we're all the best of friends. My wife and my ex were chatting on the phone for half an hour yesterday.
These things happen.
You should probably check my spelling on that one... I never spell-check... but you're just such a perfectionist (or appear to be) at times. I switch the grammar checker OFF.
Afraid I probably am.
Excerpt from 'Operation Lonely Heart':
'Slim, dark hair, blue eyes,' he read for the umpteenth time. Most of the population fitted that description. Even he had dark hair and blue eyes; he was working on slim.
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Slim Pickins.