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HELP - WHERE DO I START??
Hi Everyone,
I've been a member on here for a while and have posted a few things previously, but I have a big problem and would really appreciate some advice.
I decided about a month ago that I would dedicate much more of my time to my writing - the problem is I don't know where to start. I am three quarters of the way through my first 'bash' at a novel, I have also signed up for the Writers Bureau course, which i've had for three years and only completed two assignments. I have a few issues of Writers' News/Magazine to catch up on, plus various 'how to write' books to read and god knows how many novels.
So I sit at my desk and look at everything in front of me - then panic over what to do first, so invariably end up doing absolutely nothing, apart from surfing the internet. Then I get angry because with myself because I haven't done anything and I have to go to work, or whatever.
I don't know why this is happening to me because I really do want to write.
Any advice would be welcome, especially if you have experienced anything like this. Thanks, Skip
Comments
Prioritise your goals and see what it's important.
Not sure about that course, you might have missed their deadline. Ring and find out rather than waste energy on it.
Can't help with the internet - most of us get snared on that one!
Thank you for the advice - I will sort out my desk and try to prioritise.
I am still in the deadline of the writers' Bureau course - I already checked. The 2-year time limit was set after I signed up for the course.
OK - i'm off to sort my desk! Thanks again
And what is urgent - do that, too.
Then what you really want to do/feel like doing.
Jot any ideas down in a notebook.
Spend a certain length of time, e.g. half an hour, doing something; or set yourself a target of a certain amount of words, e.g. one hundred (or more, if think you can manage it).
Best of luck!
https://www.rescuetime.com
http://www.pomodorotechnique.com/
http://www.43folders.com/2004/09/08/getting-started-with-getting-things-done
I think you'll find that procrastination is a widespread problem with creative people and the best way to combat it is to change your habits and thinking. Remember for instance that writing time isn't just sitting at a keyboard typing but can be planning, research and the greatest part, thinking. I you have a 'How to' book you want to read then instead of logging on to the net read a chapter. As a reward you could then spend 15 mins on the computer. This kind of reward/work balance is covered in the Pomodoro Technique I mentioned above. It can be used to organise your whole life. This is something which I think most creative people don't think about but is important. Because making time to create is about making sure the dishes are going to be washed, the dinner cooked and the children picked up from school as much as actually putting words into Word.
Clear your desk, your mind, your schedule and write.
Oh and don't be so hard on yourself. You are three quarters of the way through a novel which is a great achievement and shows you know how to knuckle down.
I do have an ideas notebook, and I take your point about setting achievable goals.
Skip
Thank you for your advice - and for taking the time and trouble to answer so thoroughly.
I will be checking out those websites - they sound just what I might be looking for. I understand about the reward/work balance - it makes sense.
I'll let you know how I get on.
Skip
That's a thread I started about goals. Might help, might just be another piece of internet junk to divert you!
And as Jay always mentions the OWC on here every month, it is something short and achievable you can do in the meantime. :)
I have just read through your thread and the responses - I found it very helpful.
You have some great ideas there - and I can honestly say that i will be trying out your technique.
I read a lot of life-coaching/positive thinking books, so I know exactly where your coming from - i'd just never seen it from a writers point of view before.
Thank you,
Skip
I think you should start there Skip.
First: define for yourself what it is YOU want to write. Is it your novel, is the assignments for the course, what is it?
Second: decide how much time, and what time, you have per week for writing, and be at your writing place at that time.
Third: decide what you intend to write in that allocated time, eg character info, chapter plan, whatever.
Fourth: write.
My novel is a crime/mystery. I started a novel writing course with Writers' News some years ago and once I completed it I did an extension course, then another...now i'm on my third extension course. My tutor is fantastic and has really helped me get to where I am so far - 16 chapters completed out of 20 and over 55,000 words. If it wasn't for my tutor I would probably have given up long ago, I really can't praise him enough. I feel I owe it to him to complete my novel.
Lynn
All of you said very positive things and I will take on board everything that has been suggested.
Skip (Lynn)
Thank you - I will definitely stay in touch. I felt so upbeat after reading all the posts yesterday.
I did some research yesterday and set myself some goals which I fully intend to achieve.
Lynn
can you add me as well please dorothyd? Sometimes I need a nudge.
Thank you for that - I appreciate it.
Lynn
I just read it - it is very useful, thanks for pointing it out - i'm still on October's issue!
Skip
I am mostly but I run out of steam like everyone else. I'm a sprinter then off for a kip kind of person - a hare rather than a tortoise (never wanted one of those hideous shells anyway). At the mo I'm struck down by sinusitis.
You always talk a lot of sense. The clear desk phenomenon works for me. I can't work if I have to dig through a pile of papers to find the keyboard.
Life is short, Skip. I've spent all of my life (till now) doing what everyone else wanted and now I put my agenda first. So I would say to you, when you sit down to write, whatever topic or assignment appeals to you the most at that moment, that is, whatever is inspiring you, start with that. The rest follows and the difficult bits fill themselves in.
Thank you for yet more useful comments/advice, i'm really glad I posted that message and am grateful for the support.
paperbackwriter - I have also spent my life doing what everyone else wanted and it is very hard to change that mindset and grab a little bit of precious time for 'me'. We all have different circumstances to deal with in our lives, I guess its how you cope with it is what matters.
Skip